A CONVERSATION between Hazrat Mohammad(Salla Allahu ta’ala ‘alayhi wa Salam) and a traveler.

A traveler once came to the mosque to see the Prophet Mohammad (Salla Allahu ta’ala ‘alayhi wa Salam). After greeting the Prophet he was asked where he was from. The traveler replied that he came from very far just to get a few questions answered. Following is the dialogue between the traveler and the Prophet.

Traveler : I do not want aazab to be written in my account.
Prophet : Behave well with your parents

Traveler : I want to be known amongst people as an intelligent person.
Prophet : Fear Allah always.

Traveler : I want to be counted amongst Allah’s favorites.
Prophet : Recite Quran every morning and evening.

Traveler : I want my heart to always be enlightened. (Roshan and Munawer)
Prophet : Never forget death

Traveler : I never want to be away from Allah’s blessing.
Prophet : Always treat fellow creatures well.

Traveler : I never want to be harmed by my enemies.
Prophet : Always have faith in only Allah.

Traveler : I never want to be humiliated.
Prophet : Be careful of your actions.

Traveler : I wish to live long.
Prophet : Always do Sile Rahm. (Goodness towards blood relations)

Traveler : I want my sustenance to increase.
Prophet : Always be in Wudhoo.

Traveler : I wish to stay free of aazab in the grave.
Prophet : Always wear pure (Paak) clothes.

Traveler : I never want to burn in hell.
Prophet : Control your eyes and tongue.

Traveler : How do I get my sins forgiven.
Prophet : Always ask forgiveness from Allah with a lot of humility.

Traveler : I want people to respect me always.
Prophet : Never extend your hands of need at people.

Traveler : I want to always be honored.
Prophet : Never humiliate or put down anyone.

Traveler : I don’t want to be squeezed by fishare qabr.( squeezing in the grave)
Prophet : Recite sura e mulk often.

Traveler : I want my wealth to increase.
Prophet : Recite Sura E Waqia every night.

Traveler : I want to be safe and at peace on day of judgement.
Prophet : Do Zikr of Allah from dusk to night.

Traveler : I want to be in full attention and concentration during namaaz.
Prophet : Always do Wudhoo with concentration and attention.

TREATMENT OF PARENTS

There are numerous injunctions in the Holy Quraan regarding the special treatment towards one’s parents. Some of these are as follows:

  • Almighty Allah  says: And (remember) when We made a covenant with the Children of Israel (saying): Worship none save Allah (only); and be good to parents and to kindred and to orphans and the needy, and speak kindly to mankind; and establish worship and pay the poor-due. Then, after that, you slid back, save a few of you, being averse. (2:83)
  • Almighty Allah observes: They ask you (O Muhammad (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam)) what they shall spend. Say: that which you spend for good (must go) to parents and near kindred and orphans and the needy and the wayfarer. And whatsoever good you do, Lo! Allah is aware of it. (2:215)
  • Almighty Allah says: And serve Allah. Ascribe no thing as partner unto Him. (Show) kindness unto parents, and unto near kindred, and orphans, and the needy, and unto the neighbour who is of kin (unto you) and the neighbour who is not of kin, and the fellow-traveller and the wayfarer and (the slaves) whom your right hands possess. Lo! Allah loves not such who are proud and boastful. (4:36)
  • Almighty Allah commands: Say: Come, I will recite unto you that which your Lord has made a sacred duty for you: that you ascribe no thing as partner unto Him and that you do good to parents,  (6:151)
  • Almighty Allah says: Your Lord has decreed that you worship none besides Him, and (that you show) kindness to parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age with you, say not Fie unto them nor repulse them, but speak unto them a gracious word. And lower unto them the wing of submission through mercy, and say: My Lord! Have mercy on them both as they did care for me when I was little. (17:23-24)
  • Almighty Allah says: We have enjoined on man kindness to parents; but if they strive to make thee join with Me that of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not. Unto Me is your return and I shall tell you what you used to do. (29:8)
  • Almighty Allah says: And We have enjoined upon man concerning his parents  His mother bears him in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years  Give thanks to Me and to your parents. Unto Me is the journeying. (31:14)
  • Almighty Allah(Azzawajal) says: And We have commanded unto man kindness toward parents. His mother bears him with reluctance, and brings him forth with reluctance, and the bearing of him and the weaning of him is thirty months, till, when he attains full strength and reaches forty years, he says: My Lord! Arouse me that I may give thanks for the favour wherewith You have favoured my parents, and me and that I may do right acceptable unto You. And be gracious unto me in the matter of my seed. Lo! I have turned to You repentant, and lo! I am of those who surrender (to You). (46: 15)

Sayyiduna Abdullah (radi Allahu anhu) reported: I asked Rasoolullah (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) which deed Allah loves most? He replied, To offer prayers at their early stated times. Abdullah (radi Allahu anhu) asked, What is the next in goodness? The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said, To be good and dutiful to ones parents. Abdullah (radi Allahu anhu) asked, What is the next in goodness? The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said, To participate in Jihad for Allah’s cause. Abdullah (radi Allahu anhu) added, The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) narrated to me these three things, and if I had asked more, he would have told me more. (Bukhari)

Sayyiduna Abu Hurayra (radi Allahu anhu) reported that a man asked the Beloved Habeeb (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam): O Allah’s Apostle (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam)! Who is more entitled to be treated with the best of companionship by me? The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: Your mother. The man said: Who is next? The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: Your mother. The man further said: Who is next? The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: Your mother. The man asked for the fourth time: Who is next? The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: Your father. (Bukhari, Muslim)

Islam has given parents that much importance that one should not go for Jihad without the permission of one’s parents. Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Omar (radi Allahu anhuma) reported: A man said to Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam), Shall I participate in Jihad? The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said, Are your parents living? The man said, Yes. The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said, Do Jihad for their benefit. (Bukhari) The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) enjoined on him to serve his parents and do his best to satisfy their needs, for this will be a substitute for fighting in Almighty Allah cause.

Sayyiduna Abdullah Ibn-e-Omar (radi Allahu anhuma) reported that Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: The most grateful is he who treats well the friends of his father in his absence. (Muslim)

Sayyidah Asma Bint Abu-Bakr (radi Allahu anha) reported: My mother, who was pagan, came with her father during the period of peace pact between the Muslims and the Quraish infidels. I went to seek the advice of Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) saying, My mother has arrived and she is hoping for my favour. The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said, Yes, be good to your mother. (Bukhari, Muslim)

Sayyiduna Mughirah (radi Allahu anhu) reported that Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: Allah has forbidden the following things for you: To disobey your mothers, to bury the female child alive, to refuse the repayment to your creditors. (Bukhari, Muslim)

Sayyiduna Abdullah Ibn-e-Amr (radi Allahu anhu) reported that the Glorious Nabi of Allah (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: It is one of the greatest sins that a man should curse his parents. The people asked: O Allah’s Apostle (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam)! How can a man curse his own parents? The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: When a man abuses the father of another man and the latter abuse the father of the former and abuses his mother. (Bukhari, Muslim)

Sayyiduna Abdullah Bin Amr (radi Allahu anhu) reported that Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: The pleasure of Allah lies in the pleasure of father, and the displeasure of Allah is in the displeasure of father. (Tirmidi)

Sayyiduna Abu Umaamah (radi Allahu anhu) reported that a companion asked the Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam): O Allah’s Apostle (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam)! What are the rights of parents to their sons? The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: Both are like Heaven and Hell for you. (Ibn-e-Majah) This means the pleasure of parents would bring the reward of the Heaven and their displeasure will result into the torment of Hell.

Sayyiduna Mu’awiyah Bin Jahemah (radi Allahu anhu) reported that his father called on the Holy Prophet of Islam (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) and said: O Allah’s Apostle (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam)! I wish to go for Jihad and I have come to you to take your advice�. The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) asked: Do you have a mother? He said: Yes. The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: Make her service obligatory for yourself as the Heaven is by the side of her feet. (Nisaai)

Sayyiduna Mughirah (radi Allahu anhu) reported that the Beloved Habeeb (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said: Allah(Azzawajal) has forbidden you

  1. to be undutiful to your mothers,
  2. to withhold what you should give, or
  3. demand what you do not deserve, and
  4. to bury your daughters alive.

Allah(Azzawajal) has disliked that

  1. you talk too much about others,

  2. ask too many questions in religion, or

  3. waste your property. (Bukhari)

Whom can Zakaah not be given to?

Zakaah cannot be given to:

1. Parents and grandparents.
2. Sons, daughters and their children.
3. A persons wife or husband.
4. Non-Muslims
5. For direct payments of funeral expenses.
6. For the maintenance of the Masjid, its repairs and construction.
7. Persons as salaries or wages.
8. Sayed – descendants of Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam).

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